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1月29日 grandchildren are the bestwell, here i am again. its been a long time and i have no good reason for being away other than i have been away. sue me, all you can get in these financial times is me, and i'm not worth it. i spent yesterday evening with my first grand son and his sister. lol really, it was kaylie and her brother matt. well i have an addition to the family, he is three weeks old and matt came in weighing 8lbs. 5ozs. so now my second son and wife have two kids. three grand kids altogether. life is good.
i went over to give the love birds a chance to get out of the house and go see a movie, and i watched the grannies. yeah i know, i'm a man and the oldest is 15 months, but i was born for moments like this. when miranda and matt returned home she was expecting me to be at my wits end, but all was calm. matt was changed fed and burped and all happy, and kaylie was changed fed and happy. we were all sitting there with smiles of contentment on our faces. you see, just like i have always wanted to be a dad, then it is natural that i am relishing the opportunity to be a grand dad. it was more joy for me being with the grannies than it was for matt and miranda to be away from them; especially miranda because she is a stay at home mom. which, may i add, is the best moms.
i understand well the pressure that are on a stay at home mom, situations and injuries ( i am disabled ) made me a stay at home dad. to see your kids grow up with out breaking a leg or arm or never sustaining any major injuries or illnesses due to neglect it a very hard thing to accomplish. you can't ever really rest when you are with the babies because they are always into something and there is always that other work to do: cooking, cleaning, washing etc. you can really allow yourself to fall into that deep peaceful sleep, because there are always those late night screams of terror that come from the kids room that you have to be on the listen up for. and there are always those get out of bed and make the rounds that you do at night just to be sure.
that is why i want to do as much as i can to relieve the pressure on my kids. my wife and i are there for them and we are the old fashioned grand parents. and the grand babies love every minute of it.
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